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Saint Stephen's Episcopal Church

1695 Perrowville Road  ╬  Forest, Virginia 24551  ╬  434.525.5511  ╬  parish email
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"Being, making, and equipping disciples for the work of ministry."

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Sacrament of Reconciliation

Grant, Almighty God, that we, who have been redeemed from the old life of sin by our baptism into the death and resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ, may be renewed in your Holy Spirit, and live in righteousness and true holiness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is also known as confession or penance.  Sacramental confession has been part of the pastoral practice of our church throughout its history, as noted in both the Book of Common Prayer's exhortation to communion and the visitation of the sick.  In the 1979 revision of the prayer book, the rite for reconciliation was included.  The emphasis in the Episcopal Church is pastoral, as noted by the following dictum regarding confession: "all can, some should, none must."

While it is true that one can be forgiven by confessing one's sins directly to God, there are times when pastoral counsel and the assurance of absolution are helpful for the one whose conscience is troubled. Through the centuries, many Christians have found the regular practice of making a sacramental confession to be helpful in their spiritual walk.

The priest is available to hear confessions by appointment. 

The priest can also help you prepare for making your confession.  Some have found the following resources helpful in the examination of conscience:

The Baptismal Covenant  (BCP 304)

Celebrant      Do you believe in God the Father?
People          I believe in God, the Father almighty,
                 creator of heaven and earth.

Celebrant      Do you believe in Jesus Christ, the Son of God?
People          I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord.
                    He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit
                        and born of the Virgin Mary.
                    He suffered under Pontius Pilate,
                        was crucified, died, and was buried.
                    He descended to the dead.
                    On the third day he rose again.
                    He ascended into heaven,
                        and is seated at the right hand of the Father.
                    He will come again to judge the living and the dead.


Celebrant
     Do you believe in God the Holy Spirit?
People          I believe in the Holy Spirit,
                    the holy catholic Church,
                    the communion of saints,
                    the forgiveness of sins,
                    the resurrection of the body,
                    and the life everlasting.

Celebrant      Will you continue in the apostles’ teaching and
                 fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in the
                 prayers?

People          I will, with God’s help.

Celebrant      Will you persevere in resisting evil, and, whenever
                 you fall into sin, repent and return to the Lord?

People          I will, with God’s help.

Celebrant     Will you proclaim by word and example the Good
                 News of God in Christ?

People          I will, with God’s help.

Celebrant      Will you seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving
                 your neighbor as yourself?

People          I will, with God’s help.

Celebrant      Will you strive for justice and peace among all
                 people, and respect the dignity of every human
                 being?

People          I will, with God’s help.

 The Beatitudes

Matt.5

[1] Seeing the crowds, he went up on the mountain, and when he sat down his disciples came to him.

 

[2] And he opened his mouth and taught them, saying:

[3] "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.


[4] "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.


[5] "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.


[6] "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.


[7] "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy.


[8] "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.


[9] "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.


[10] "Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.


[11] "Blessed are you when men revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.

[12] Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so men persecuted the prophets who were before you.

The Revised Standard Version of the Bible is copyright © National Council of Churches of Christ in America.

The Ten Commandments

Hear the commandments of God to his people:

  1. You shall have no other gods but me.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  2. You shall not make for yourself any idol.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  3. You shall not invoke with malice the Name of the Lord your God.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  4. Remember the Sabbath Day and keep it holy.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  5. Honor your father and your mother.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  6. You shall not commit murder.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  7. You shall not commit adultery.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  8. You shall not steal.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  9. You shall not be a false witness.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  10. You shall not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

Concerning the Rite

The ministry of reconciliation, which has been committed by Christ to his Church, is exercised through the care each Christian has for others, through the common prayer of Christians assembled for public worship, and through the priesthood of the Church and its ministers declaring absolution.

The Reconciliation of a Penitent is available for all who desire it. It is not restricted to times of sickness. Confessions may be heard anytime and anywhere.

Two equivalent forms of service are provided here to meet the needs of penitents. The absolution in these services may be pronounced only by a bishop or priest. Another Christian may be asked to hear a confession, but it must be made clear to the penitent that absolution will not be pronounced; instead, a declaration of forgiveness is provided.

When a confession is heard in a church building, the confessor may sit inside the altar rails or in a place set aside to give greater privacy, and the penitent kneels nearby. If preferred, the confessor and penitent may sit face to face for a spiritual conference leading to absolution or a declaration of forgiveness.

When the penitent has confessed all serious sins troubling the conscience and has given evidence of due contrition, the priest gives such counsel and encouragement as are needed and pronounces absolution. Before giving absolution, the priest may assign to the penitent a psalm, prayer, or hymn to be said, or something to be done, as a sign of penitence and act of thanksgiving.

The content of a confession is not normally a matter of subsequent discussion.

The secrecy of a confession is morally absolute for the confessor, and must under no circumstances be broken.

From the Book of Common Prayer, p. 446