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Saint Stephen's Episcopal Church

1695 Perrowville Road  ╬  Forest, Virginia 24551  ╬  434.525.5511  ╬  parishoffice@ststephensforest.org
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"Being, making, and equipping disciples for the work of ministry."

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Sacrament of Reconciliation

Grant, Almighty God, that we, who have been redeemed from the old life of sin by our baptism into the death and resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ, may be renewed in your Holy Spirit, and live in righteousness and true holiness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is also known as confession or penance.  Sacramental confession has been part of the pastoral practice of our church throughout its history, as noted in both the Book of Common Prayer's exhortation to communion and the visitation of the sick.  In the 1979 revision of the prayer book, the rite for reconciliation was included.  The emphasis in the Episcopal Church is pastoral, as noted by the following dictum regarding confession: "all can, some should, none must."

While it is true that one can be forgiven by confessing one's sins directly to God, there are times when pastoral counsel and the assurance of absolution are helpful for the one whose conscience is troubled. Through the centuries, many Christians have found the regular practice of making a sacramental confession to be helpful in their spiritual walk.

The priest is available to hear confessions by appointment. 

The priest can also help you prepare for making your confession.  Some have found the following resources helpful in the examination of conscience:

The Baptismal Covenant  (BCP 304)

The Beatitudes (Matthew 7)

The Ten Commandments

Hear the commandments of God to his people:

  1. You shall have no other gods but me.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  2. You shall not make for yourself any idol.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  3. You shall not invoke with malice the Name of the Lord your God.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  4. Remember the Sabbath Day and keep it holy.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  5. Honor your father and your mother.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  6. You shall not commit murder.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  7. You shall not commit adultery.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  8. You shall not steal.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  9. You shall not be a false witness.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

  10. You shall not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor.  Amen. Lord have mercy.

Concerning the Rite

The ministry of reconciliation, which has been committed by Christ to his Church, is exercised through the care each Christian has for others, through the common prayer of Christians assembled for public worship, and through the priesthood of the Church and its ministers declaring absolution.

The Reconciliation of a Penitent is available for all who desire it. It is not restricted to times of sickness. Confessions may be heard anytime and anywhere.

Two equivalent forms of service are provided here to meet the needs of penitents. The absolution in these services may be pronounced only by a bishop or priest. Another Christian may be asked to hear a confession, but it must be made clear to the penitent that absolution will not be pronounced; instead, a declaration of forgiveness is provided.

When a confession is heard in a church building, the confessor may sit inside the altar rails or in a place set aside to give greater privacy, and the penitent kneels nearby. If preferred, the confessor and penitent may sit face to face for a spiritual conference leading to absolution or a declaration of forgiveness.

When the penitent has confessed all serious sins troubling the conscience and has given evidence of due contrition, the priest gives such counsel and encouragement as are needed and pronounces absolution. Before giving absolution, the priest may assign to the penitent a psalm, prayer, or hymn to be said, or something to be done, as a sign of penitence and act of thanksgiving.

The content of a confession is not normally a matter of subsequent discussion. The secrecy of a confession is morally absolute for the confessor, and must under no circumstances be broken.

From the Book of Common Prayer, p. 446